题目内容：

  You may be surprised to see “making sure children never suffer” as a mistake. The following    may help you understand how rescuing children from all suffering     weakness.

A little boy felt sorry for a butterfly struggling to           from its chrysalis. He decided to        the butterfly. So he peeled the chrysalis open for the butterfly. The little boy was so           to watch the butterfly spread its wings and fly off into the sky. Then he was horrified     he watched the butterfly fall to the ground and die because it did not have the muscle     to keep flying. In fact, the butterfly’s struggle to     the chrysalis helps the butterfly become stronger.

Like the little boy,     too often want to protect their children from struggle in the    of love. They don’t realize that their children need to struggle, to experience     , to deal with disappointment, and to solve their own problems. Only in this way can children   their emotional strength, become     and develop the skills necessary for the even bigger struggles they will meet throughout their lives. Children experiencing sufferings can     the ups and downs of life.

However, it isn’t helpful either in this case when parents       lectures(训斥), blame and shame to what the child is experiencing. Mothers     to say, “Stop crying and acting like a spoiled boy. You can’t always get what you want.” These     words should be avoided.

Instead, parents can offer loving support. You can say, “Don’t lose     . Be brave! You will succeed if you try again.” Then comes the tough part—no     a no lectures. Simply allow him to discover that he can get over his disappointment and     what he can do to get  what he wants in the future.

1.A. story          B. proverb      C. saying            D. Experiment

2.A. damages      B. burns      C. creates            D. experiences

3.A. hear          B. suffer      C. date             D. emerge

4.A. kill          B. feed          C. help                D. rescue

5.A. excited      B. moved      C. puzzled            D. depressed

6.A. as            B. since      C. before            D. until

7.A. power      B. energy     C. strength            D. force

8.A. come up       B. do away with  C. get along with  D. break away from with

9.A. teachers      B. parents      C. relatives            D. friends

10.A. case      B. charge      C. name            D. course

11.A. friendships  B. scholarships  C. relationships        D. hardships

12.A. strengthen  B. require      C. get                D. achieve

13.A. warm-hearted  B. strong-willed  C. absent-mind        D. cold-blooded

14.A. expect      B. predict      C. survive            D. avoid

15.A. add          B. adapt      C. devote            D. contribute

16.A. pretend      B. happen      C. tend                D. seem

17.A. discouraging  B. inspiring      C. interesting    D. touching

18.A. heart      B. face       C. sight            D. weight

19.A. parking      B. smoking      C. drinking         D. rescuing

20.A. figure out  B. carry out      C. rule out            D. drop out