题目内容：

You may be surprised to see “making sure children never suffer” as a mistake. The following ___may help you understand how rescuing children from all suffering ______ weakness.

A little boy felt sorry for a butterfly ______ to emerge from its chrysalis(蛹）. He decided to___the butterfly. So he peeled the chrysalis open for the butterfly. The little boy was so ______ to watch the butterfly spread its wings and fly off into the sky. Then he was horrified ______ he watched the butterfly fall to the ground and die because it did not have the muscle and ______ to keep flying. In fact, the butterfly’s struggle to ______ the chrysalis helps the butterfly become stronger.

Like the little boy, ______ too often want to protect their children from struggle in the ___of love. They don’t realize that their children need to struggle, to experience  ______, to deal with disappointment, and to solve their own problems. Only in this way ______ children strengthen their emotional strength, become ______ and develop the skills necessary for the even bigger struggles they will meet throughout their lives. Children experiencing sufferings can ______ the ups and downs of life.

However, it isn’t helpful either in this case when parents ______ lectures(训斥), blame and shame to what the child is experiencing. Mothers _____ to say, “Stop crying and acting like a spoiled boy. You can’t always get what you want.” These ______ words should be avoided. Instead, parents can offer loving support. You can say, “Don’t lose ______ . Be brave! You will succeed if you try again.” Then comes the tough part—no ______ and no lectures. Simply allow him to discover that he can ______ his disappointment and figure out what he can do to get what he wants in the future.

1.A. saying    B. experiment    C. proverb    D. story

2.A. damages    B. creates    C. experiences    D. burns

3.A. turning    B. devoting    C. struggling    D. coming

4.A. help    B. feed    C. kill    D. rescue

5.A. moved    B. depressed    C. puzzled    D. excited

6.A. until    B. as    C. before    D. since

7.A. strength    B. energy    C. power    D. force

8.A. do away from    B. get away with    C. get along with    D. come up with

9.A. teachers    B. relatives    C. parents    D. friends

10.A. case    B. charge    C. name    D. course

11.A. friendships    B. scholarships    C. hardships    D. relationships

12.A. should    B. can    C. do    D. are

13.A. warm-hearted    B. strong-willed    C. absent-mind    D. cold-blooded

14.A. expect    B. predict    C. survive    D. avoid

15.A. add    B. adapt    C. devote    D. contribute

16.A. pretend    B. happen    C. seem    D. tend

17.A. inspiring    B. discouraging    C. interesting    D. touching

18.A. sight    B. face    C. heart    D. weight

19.A. parking    B. smoking    C. drinking    D. rescuing

20.A. get through    B. get over    C. get across    D. get away