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Human growth is a process of experimentation, trial, and error eventually leading to wisdom. Each time you choose to trust yourself and take action, you can never quite be certain how the situation will ________.

Sometimes you are victorious, and sometimes you become disappointed. The ________experiments, however, are no less valuable than the experiments that finally prove successful; in fact, you

________learn more from your "failures" than you do from your________. If you have made what you think to be a mistake or failed to live up to your own ________ you will most likely put up a barrier between your essence and the part of you that is the alleged (F 7/ßfikJ) wrong-doer.

However, viewing past actions as________implies guilt and blame, and it is not possible to learn anything meaning while you are engaged in blaming. ________forgiveness is required when you are severely judging yourself. Forgiveness is the act of erasing an ________debt. There are four kinds of forgiveness.

The first is beginner forgiveness for yourself.

The second of forgiveness is beginner forgiveness for another.

The third kind of forgiveness is ________ forgiveness of yourself. This is for serious misbehaviors, the ones you carry with deep ________. When you do something that violates your own values and principles, you create a gap between your standards and your actual _______.

In such a case, you need to work very hard at________ yourself for these deeds so that you can close this gap. This does not ________ that you should rush to forgive yourself or shouldn't feel regret, ________taking pleasure in these feelings for a prolonged period of time is not healthy.

The ________and perhaps most difficult one is the advanced forgiveness of another.

At some time of our life, you may have been severely wronged or hurt by another person to such a degree that forgiveness seems________.However, harboring anger and revenge fantasies only keeps you ________ in victimhood. Under such a circumstance, you should force yourself to see the bigger picture. By so doing, you will be able to ________ the focus away from the anger and resentment.

It is only through forgiveness that you can erase wrongdoing and ________the memory. When you can ________ release the situation, you may come to see it as a necessary part of your growth.

1.A. turn out         B. turn up         C. break up     D. break out

2.A. important       B. engaged         C. failed      D. successful

3.A. obviously        B. necessarily   C. continuously D. usually

4.A. success          B. failure         C. fault       D. benefit

5.A. ability         B. expectations   C. belief      D. experiences

6.A. mistakes        B. victories       C. experiments  D. fantasies

7.A. Still           B. Therefore      C. Instead     D. However

8.A. absurd           B. original       C. emotional    D. unusual

9.A. ordinary         B. advanced        C. alternative  D. certain

10.A. wisdom          B. mercy           C. injury      D. shame

11.A. thought         B. approach        C. behavior     D. purpose

12.A. punishing       B. forgiving       C. blaming     D. praising

13.A. mean           B. prove           C. reflect     D. represent

14.A. and             B. or             C. but          D. so

15.A. uncertain       B. premier        C. next         D. last

16.A. essential       B. valuable      C. impossible   D. unavoidable

17.A.trapped          B. located         C. lost         D. occupied

18.A. drive           B. drag           C. put         D. shift

19.A. keep           B. refresh         C. weaken      D. clean

20.A. naturally      B. finally        C. definitely D. initially