题目内容：

Years ago, a critical event occurred in my life that would change it forever. I met Kurt Kampmeir of Success Motivation Incorporation for breakfast. While we were ____, Kurt asked me, ＂John, what is your ____for personal growth?＂

Never at a loss for words, I tried to find things in my life that might ____for growth. I told him about the many activities in which I was ____. And I went into a ____about how hard I worked and the gains I was making. I must have talked for ten minutes. Kurt ____patiently, but then he ____smiled and said, ＂You don’t have a personal plan for growth, do you?＂

＂No,＂ I ____.

＂You know,＂ Kurt said simply, ＂growth is not a(n) ____process.＂

And that’s when it ____me. I wasn’t doing anything ____to make myself better. And at that moment, I made the ____: I will develop and follow a personal growth plan for my ____.

That night, I talked to my wife about my ____with Kurt and what I had learned. I ____her the workbook and tapes Kurt was selling. We ____that Kurt wasn’t just trying to make a sale. He was offering a ____for us to change our lives and achieve our dreams.

Several important things happened that day. First, we decided to ____the resources. But more importantly, we made a commitment to ____together as a couple. From that day on, we learned together, traveled together, and sacrificed together. It was a ____decision. While too many couples grow apart, we were growing together.

1.A. working    B. preparing    C. thinking    D. eating

2.A. suggestion    B. demand    C. plan    D. request

3.A. appeal    B. look    C. call    D. qualify

4.A. involved    B. trapped    C. lost    D. bathed

5.A. lecture    B. speech    C. discussion    D. debate

6.A. calculated    B. listened    C. drank    D. explained

7.A. eagerly    B. gradually    C. gratefully    D. finally

8.A. admitted    B. interrupted    C. apologized    D. complained

9.A. automatic    B. slow    C. independent    D. changing

10.A. confused    B. informed    C. pleased    D. hit

11.A. on loan    B. on purpose    C. on sale    D. on balance

12.A. comment    B. announcement    C. decision    D. arrangement

13.A. life    B. progress    C. performance    D. investment

14.A. contract    B. conversation    C. negotiation    D. argument

15.A. lent    B. sold    C. showed    D. offered

16.A. recalled    B. defined    C. recognized    D. declared

17.A. tool    B. method    C. way    D. rule

18.A. provide    B. buy    C. give    D. deliver

19.A. grow    B. survive    C. move    D. gather

20.A. difficult    B. random    C. firm    D. wise