题目内容：

What do we really mean by being open? Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share. It’s important to let others get to know how we think and feel. In this way we will be understood and accepted by others. If we aren’t open with others, we won’t fully believe in ourselves or others.

Here are a few ways for you to be more open. First, make your outside behavior the same as your inside feelings and thoughts. Second, share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions. Third, try to change your questions into statements and talk in the first person so that it will be easier for people to understand. For example, you might say, “I feel happy that you’re here.” Instead of “ Are you glad that you’re here ?”

Remember also that it is not suitable to be open with everyone in every situation. You may want to be more open with close friends, but not with people you don’t know well, because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you. Besides, some people may not be used to too much openness. If we say everything we feel and think to them, they will feel very comfortable at times.

In all, being open is a good way for us to get on well with other people, we’d better keep the balance between being open and not being too open.

1. Being open means a kind of _____________ to come in, to speak and to share, we’d better keep way others will fully _____________________ us.

2.First, don’t make your outside behavior________________ your inside feelings and thoughts. Second, share your really feelings about something not just opinions , _________.

3.Third, try not to ask questions but to use statement and talk _______________ so that people will understand you _____________.

4.Don’t be open with everyone. You may be more open with ____________, but not with people you don’t know well, because someone may use________________________.

5.If we say everything we feel and think to the people who__________________ too much openness, they will feel very uncomfortable at times. We’d better _________________ between being open and not being too open.